"we expect because we don't trust ourselves" |
Why do we expect people ? Is just that we can not fill our life with happiness by own? Is just that we need people's attention to make our life smooth? Is just that people whom we connect emotionally or mentally, better understand us. May be some would say yes, this reasons are enough to justify the statement 'why we need expectation'. But i think life doesn't work like that.
We expect from everyone, everyone like everyone even from non living things too, yeah it sound sarcastic but it's true. Sorry to say but, here is some kind of jerk who thinks if this tree would not be here my life would goes smooth.
We expect from strangers that he or she stay in their limits, once they cross the limit we get hurt. We expect from our friends that they stay remain same, they reach on time, they always understand us, they always give priority to us. When they unable to fulfil our expectations, we get hurt. We expect from our parents that they understand our internal chaos, even when we are not sharing anything to them. We expect government to provide all comforts like better air quality in atmosphere as if it is their duty to fly and clean toxic, which apparently spread by us, in the air. We expect that they do everything for us no matter how much we responsible for the duty toward nation. Parents expect from their children to know what they want. And when these expectations do not work according to our comfort, unfortunately we get get hurt. So, in nut shell we are cause of our own predicament. Why don't we start to accomplish all the expectations that we expect from other.
Life is a beautiful journey and i experience it everyday. I would suggest, live the life at least one as trial without expecting anything from anyone, you will realise how relax the life is. Expect only from yourself is the key to success.
Expectation and dream are given birth by life. And these two are like a sister, they love each other very much but they can not live with each other. If you want to make your dreams come true then you have to pick the pebbles of expectations and through it far from the path of destination.
Happy reading !!
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